YO VINNIE: my friend swears that if you press down and hold your taint before you blow your wad, you DON'T blow your wad--but it feels like it. We called BS on him and now we're turning to you for the truth.—H.T., Cleveland, OH

Tantric Tea Pot: This is all part of that Sting-I-can-fuck-my-woman-for-18-hours-thing. Fuck him, fuck that, fuck you. Yeah it works sometimes. But here’s a thought: how about you easing up on talking to dudes about their cocks while you’re pretending to be hetero.